My first born turned eighteen this week. We went to the post office to sign him up for the draft. The proper name is Selective Service and not registering is a felony.
“Registration is the process by which the U.S. Government collects names and addresses of men age 18 through 25 to use in case of a national emergency, determined by Congress and the President, which would require rapid expansion of the Armed Forces.”
It’s just a simple form that gets filled out and mailed back. All male U.S. citizens (“and immigrants, documented and undocumented”) residing in the U.S. must register if they are age 18 through 25. Men are required to register within thirty days of their 18th birthday. Once men reach their 25th birthday, they can no longer register.
If you do not sign up, there is a chance of prosecution and a fine of $250,000 and up to five years in prison. Or both. The other threats are loss of student financial aid, government employment, and U.S. citizenship.
My head and my heart know that filling out this form is no big deal. I really don’t think our government will institute the draft. It has not happened with all the recent events and from what I read, it will not happen. Besides the thoughts of war, it is disconcerting to view my son as “a man.”
I can handle that he is a “young man,” a high school senior, and this is my last year with him under my roof. He plans to go away to college next fall. Babies grow up. Moms freak out. It’s the cycle of life.
The night of September 11, 2001, I sat in bed with my mind reeling. I blubbered to my husband that my babies would be drafted and have to go to war. I rattled on about how I loved our country, and I believe in serving our country, but what does that really mean, and can’t we figure out something besides war, and if mothers were in charge there would be no war.
My sons were in elementary school at the time. My husband told me to go sleep and that by the time these boys were eighteen, this nightmare would all be behind us.
Well, fast forward to today. World events still boggle my brain. We have not figured out something besides war. The Man of the Place is not the man of my place any more, and my baby is eighteen and signing up for the draft.
Babies grow up. Moms freak out. But the freak-out does not last. I see my son for the remarkable person he is and I support him in every way. If he chooses to join the Armed Forces, I would be so proud of him. If he chooses to go to college, I will be so proud of him. If he chooses to join a trade, I will be so proud of him.
The world will keep on spinning and we’ll keep hanging on. Mothers will always want the best for their sons and to keep them safe from harm. Mothers will always have to learn to let go, and let their sons find their own way. And sons will always love their mamas.